Among the warning #signs, your partner needs a divorce is when he isn’t interested … I saved myself for marriage–which I don’t regret-but his rejection of me truly hurts. 1.1 1. Partners who are in love have sex more often to make love. Lost in Sacramento. Fantasies about women get me aroused but not men. In my teens, I began identifying as a bisexual, but my love for (and of) women has only increased with age. When it comes to marriage, if a guy is done and not in love anymore, he isn’t going to go in for love that isn’t real. I don’t know what to do my husband and I have been together 11 years married 6 and 8 weeks ago he walked out saying he doesn’t love me anymore and doesn’t want to save our marriage. He may love his spouse and want to be with her forever, but there is a biological pull, usually unconscious, that says, … He keeps saying he loves me but is not in love with me anymore, and that I am not the person he married. 3. A guy who doesn’t love his wife would rather masturbate than carry on a fake sexual relationship. I am his best friend and the mother of his kids, but he isn’t in love with me. He is willing to cuddle but intercourse is out of the question. He Doesn’t Reach Out To Communicate; 1.4 4. I love my family beyond words and I will do ANYTHING to save us! 15 Unfortunate Signs Your Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore, Signs Your Husband Wants A Divorce and Signs My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore. We had many conversations and he bought your book, First The Empowered Wife. He read about 3/4 of the book and made notes. He’s No Longer Romantic; 1.3 3. We were having a rather innocuous conversation and I said that I was still “in love” with her. We have 4 sons together. He Makes It Difficult To Spend Time Together; 1.7 7. Can you help? WTF is what went through my head when my wife of 15 years said she is not “in love” with me. 1 Signs My Husband Isn't Attracted To Me Anymore. Our Feelings. They enjoy pleasing their partners in the bedroom, not purely to … If you still enjoy sex together, that is one of the best answers to, does my husband love me. He gone to stay at his brothers but only took a few clothes and doesn’t want any thing else. He says the marriage in not fixable and does not want to fix it anyway. He Flirts With Other Women; 1.6 6. I hate having sex with my husband because I do not get turned on like I am “supposed” to. Physical Intimacy. He Listens But Doesn’t Engage; 1.5 5. I have been married for 10 years with 2 kids. He wants a divorce and will not change his mind this time! My husband has told me that he loves me but is not “in love” with me and he no longer wants to have intercourse with me. Never men. That isn't the case for men. I feel angry, rejected, and hurt. my husband of almost 20 years says he isn't in love with me anymore and no longer wants to remained married. Dear Lost: It sounds like your husband is saying he no longer loves you. Dear Neil: I would like to know whether my husband is having a midlife crisis. Sex Life Goes Off The Cliff; 1.2 2. My husband told me the other week that he doesn’t love me anymore and wants to leave.